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Good morning listeners. Today's Tuesday, and we all just got
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out of Thanksgiving. I don't know about y'all. That food
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is still lingering in my stomach. And the beauty of
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this is that it reminds us that there's so much
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more to be grateful for. It's wonderful to get together
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with families, have those wonderful moments that we treasure throughout
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the rest of our lives. So one of the things
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that I want to talk to you about is that
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taking a stock of what we have and being grateful
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for it, rather than being in the future land at
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all times. Oh I want this, I want this, I
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want this, and not saying that it's not important to
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have those big, hairy, audacious goals. Yes, go for it,
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I'm all for it. I'm here to support you because
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who doesn't want to have good things in their lives?
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And at the same token, it's so important that we
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are grateful for what we have. So I'm very, very
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grateful that I have you in my life, because without you,
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my fellow listeners, my fellow viewers, this show would not
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be there. I'm doing this show for you, so really
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grateful for you, and I want to thank each and
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every one of you for purchasing a books. Today is
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Giving Tuesday. If you buy our books, what we are
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going to do is usually we only give part of
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the proceeds. Today I'm going to double it and donated
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to keep a dot Org. So invite you to go
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on Amazon and pick up either of the books Expert
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to Influencer, Other Entrepreneurs Garden and get the books. And
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from today where we get we will be doing double
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what we donate to Kiva based on all the sales
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that we have today. So look forward to getting in
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together with you, helping you become the influencer you want
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to be, are the better person or a stronger person,
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or increasing a capacity, whatever your goals are along with
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helping others. So today I do want to share with
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you our guest who's going to be with us has
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fallen sick and she cannot make it, and we wish
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that you know she recovers very quickly and we will
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have her on her show next time. So one of
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the things to think about is like Okay, so I
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got this message. I usually don't check my emails in
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the morning. I've got a routine, do my meditation, do
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my gratitude journal, and find that time for myself because
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it's important. So now I read this message somewhere around
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nine point thirty, and of course this is a live show,
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so in twenty five minutes we're going to go on
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the air. I send her a nice message, like, you know,
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how she feels better, and then I'm thinking, okay, what
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are we going to talk about? So I thought, why
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not talk about emotions and AI? Because as soon as
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I've read that email? What happened that quick? You know,
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are amigdella? It went into it just kind of like
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it goes into that overdrive mode in thinking, m M,
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my guest is not coming. What's going to be the
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other option? So I calmed it down, took a step back,
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and thought, why not this gives me an opportunity to
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talk to you directly, and why not talk about artificial
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intelligence because it is here to change your lives. I
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don't know for those of you, some of you may
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not even remember the time when the internet, when I
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stepped in really really big time, and when then the
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emails came in. So if any of you remember, it
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was during the time of AOL and you would sit
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in front of those computers and I used to have
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this gigantic, yes, gigantic monitor, a big computer on that
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like a desktop, and but the email would come, it
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would go, and there would be some time before it
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would take you in the email. Then there was also
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a phase of GPS. Oh yeah, probably I'll don't remember,
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but I could read maps. Yeah, even though I'm really
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bad at directions, I could read maps and figure out
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my way. And then some of those detaurs we would
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have to take and sometimes you would stop, maybe at
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a local store, especially when we would go out on
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family vacations, family trips. Those used to be fun days.
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And when the GPS came, there was that trepedition skepticism,
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Oh this is here to change my life. Google search
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the old ways so much better. And this has happened
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with every invention. Now is every invention just there for
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the good of the humanity? What I say is that
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invention or innovation or discovery, whatever it is, it is
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only as good as what we make of it. The
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human hand is never going to leave the interactions the
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human hand is always going to be at the home.
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Now the key is and what kind of captain you're
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going to be of that ship whether we like it
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or not. Yeah, I is here to stay. And initially
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when it came out, I've been through all the stages
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that I'm going to talk about today that everybody, most
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of the people go through. Now I'm not saying everybody,
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but most of the people go through. Whenever you face
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life changing situation or and it's not just the invention
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or innovation or something new that's coming into our lives.
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It can be a loss. It can be a job loss,
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it can be a loss of a loved one. We
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go through multiple stages, and similarly, for AI there are
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six stages. So it was around like probably October November
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of twenty twenty two. I was sitting and having a
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conversation with one of my fellow colleagues and they said, oh,
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have you heard about this exciting thing? And I'm like,
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what exciting thing? They're like, oh, it's all over the news.
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And as we were talking, like, oh yeah, artificial intelligence,
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and it was a completely unknown commodity. And here I was.
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I've been writing before Chad Gpt I've had tons of
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books published before chadj and co Pilot and Gemini and
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Tropic and Facebook Slama and all these large language learning models.
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We're not going to go into the technological details today.
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And I was like, oh, this is so good at
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rites And I faced that fear and denial and like,
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there are so many emotions kind of running through me.
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I'm like, so, what are we going to lose? Our capabilities?
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Are we going to lose? And this is the thing.
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You lose some, you gain some, and it's up to
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you on how do you keep your skill sets, your
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mindset and your psyche and yourself either stronger than before
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or weaker than before, or somewhere in the middle. I
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was upset. I went through a lot of emotions, and
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then one of the things I've learned in my life
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journey is that sometimes I will have initial resistance to things,
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and then over the course of years, I keep on
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training myself. I keep on working on myself, because the
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way I see life is life is working on oneself
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the last day of your life, because there's so much
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more to learn. The more I learn, the more I
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realize that less I know I don't know about ya,
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but if we were to take a whole circle, let's say,
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circle of what we know personally, I would say that
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there's a very tiny sliver or a pie very tiny
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section of that circle where I could say these are
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the things that I know. Then there is another piece
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of pie where I could say these are the things
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I know I don't know, and the rest is I
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don't know what I don't know. I know. This is
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complicated what I'm talking about. We just visualize that circle,
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so then we don't know what we don't know to
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so many things. How about being open to possibilities and
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how about just seeing where the AI can take us.
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So going back to my journey, I said, all right,
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I'm going to check it out and see what's going
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to happen. So going back to my writing and writing
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my books, it's like, hmm, so if A is going
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to write, how are we going to know who's writing
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who's not. And that's a story for a nowaday, yes,
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a conversation for another day. You can't tell what's being
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written by AI and what's written by the human beings,
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and maybe in the near future the lines will blur.
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But at the core of it, guess what I still
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write a lot of my things because I'll tell you,
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since I started using the GPS and smartphones, I did resist.
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I did resist to smartphones. You know, a lot of
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years went by I did not have it. I'm like,
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I'm the last one who's going to have it, and
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then I resisted it. I was in denial. I was
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stuck in the past. Like the old ways. The traditional
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methods are the way to go. And especially if you're
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in a company or whether let's say, if you're a
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manager or if you're a CEO. Here's the thing. Even you, yes,
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whether you're a professional, whether you're an entrepreneur, going to clink.
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Not all of you, but we all tend to get nostalgic.
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We tend to cling to the familiar practices, the traditional methods,
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and we just say, maybe it's a fad, it'll pass.
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In the state of denial like I had with the
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cell phones, I'm like, oh, it's going to go away.
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do is I would punch, like you know when you
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had to text someone because everybody else was using smartphones
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and people would text me, and I was just kind
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of going at one little dose. Those buttons and like
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pressing those to get my text. I resisted it, I
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denied it. But what did it do? It was taking
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me longer time to send people messages, whether it was
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at work or in family. What I do? It damaged
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a lot of my progress because I refuse to adapt
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and grow with the times. And it can even lead
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to missed opportunities for you. So I did that. I
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know that from experience, And that's just one story. I
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could go on and around with different stories where I've
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resisted things, and then when I look at it during
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the hindsight, of course, hindsight is twenty twenty and be like, oh,
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I wish I had learned it earlier? Why not? Oh
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what was I thinking? So easy to say that, right?
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What was I thinking? So when this time around AI came?
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The key is not about keep on making the same
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mistakes over and over again in life, but it's about
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learning from those mistakes and not repeating it. So what
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did I do? Yep, I'm going to get on the
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horse right now, whether I know how to write it
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or not, but and I'm going to go rite that wave.
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You know, that's that's my imagination, riding a horse on
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that wave of the ocean. That's how I it is. Yes,
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it's hard to comprehend how to digest. Now does that
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mean like just because you're open, you don't go through
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the other emotions you will. So I'm just going to
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continue using my journey. It's okay. I was not in
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the now now. What happened was when I bought the
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cell phone. I was upset, like I'm like, oh, why
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do you have to learn all of these things, like
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all these apps? Don't you have enough with social media?
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Don't we have with all of this? Because there's a
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lot of fear and uncertainty. It's like there's so much
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technology that people are having fatigue. Yes, there's something called adfatigue.
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There's something called zoomfitty. So similarly, Ayah is no different.
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It's going to build a frustration because it's not the reality.
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Like in twenty twenty two, there was fear that what
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will happen to my job? To date's a reality? Think
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about it. What I'm going to tell you is that
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if you are being an Ostrich with your head buried
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in the sand, you'll be a turkey. Now what does
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ostrich you have to do with the turkey? I'm going
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to tell you that you'll be a turkey in the
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sense is that there's turkey has a great time, but
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like once Thanksgiving dinner is over, it's all and down.
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It's gone. Well, it has served its purpose, it has
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brought the family and all that together. But then you're
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out of running. So don't be a turkey. The key
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is we are seeing and I could give you stats
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that have shown that companies have laid off people because
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AI is replacing the job. So don't be a turkey.
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Don't be a turkey. You become the smart.
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One where you're not the turkey, but you're the one