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Good morning, listeners, hope you all had good holidays, Happy
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New Year. We are in twenty twenty five and I
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sincerely feel that something's in the air and twenty twenty
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five is going to be great. So what are your goals.
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I'm not going to ask your resolutions, just goals for
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the year where you have something insight. So it's really
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really important to have those goals in sight. And as
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you usually talk about kindness, I do want to share
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a story. So one of our audience and listeners, Marcel,
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she shared with us that she has called a couple
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of kids and she was running late. She was late
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to get to the airport and there was a huge line.
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And what was amazing was that when she reached there
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was a long line. I mean, of course that's not amazing,
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but so she talked with the one agent, you know,
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they are agents who are helping, and the person was like, oh,
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you should have got here on time, and didn't say anything.
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And then she saw another person who was smiling at
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everyone very kind. She reached out to that person and
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said that, you know, could you please help me get
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through this line? I know I'm late, And that person
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walked her through and she was able to catch her
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flight to get home for holidays. So kindness is there.
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And for those of you who are looking to achieve
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those goals, even if you're looking to have those resolutions,
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and remember those resolutions, only ninety two percent fail. Yeah,
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only ninety two percent fail. And why am I saying
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that Because it's very very common and only eight percent
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get the resolutions achieved. So if you want to achieve
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your resolution, both of our books will do that. Make
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sure that you get our books and help other entrepreneurs
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because part of the profits go to that. And your
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well being is super important and that's why we have
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got Sunny with us today. Who's going to be sharing
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with us very unique way to get your health on track.
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Malcolm Sonny, thank.
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You very much for having me, and happy New Year
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to you and to your audience. And yeah, I have
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some very interesting things to share with your audience.
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The story's thoughts. When I was a child, I was.
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Crippled with a case of childhood asthma, and I was
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setting school records for days out and illness, and I
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was introduced to a woman Filipino chiropractor who taught me yoga, breathing,
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relaxation and stretching exercises, and after suffering for five years
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with the asthma, I was cured within a couple of
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months of doing a regular routine of breathing, relaxing, getting
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into the flow, stretching exercises to loosen my upper body
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and to learn how to breathe diplomatically. After I was cured,
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I realized from doing their exercises and the techniques that
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I had something here. So I kept on doing it
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and practically overnight I went from a kid that couldn't
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walk up a flight of steps to a champion baseball
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track runner of course country runner. No less on too
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when the Captain and MVP awards went on to Delphis
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on a track scholarship.
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And the piano.
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Same thing was interesting way I got into it because
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I wrote a book called Sody's Piano Yoga. Why Piano Yoga?
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Because my father was learning the piano it was born.
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So my earliest memories are falling asleep in the crib
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listening to him practice mozarts on the tenas and my
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whole side of the family, everybody played the piano, everybody
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played the guitar, everybody played instruments. So thus I was
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inspired to play the piano. So what happened was I
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eventually I went on to teach yoga, stress management, meditation
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after I came out of the Delphi, and I went
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on to play gigs in restaurants and clubs. Thus what
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happened with the piano yoga was I eventually always loved
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video was applying in the video thing. I started making
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video tours and my pianos for sale and put them
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out online before there was a YouTube, and suddenly I
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was selling pianos, not just locally table where I had
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my school, but I was selling pianos worldwide. Why because
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I was one of the first guys to use the
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video to market my business. So now I'm selling pianost
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worldwide and talk about transforming your life. I went from
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a little small music school a piano store to a
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nationwide and eventually a worldwide.
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Internet piano business, again one of the first. So from
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there it just kept morphing.
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And now I've written a book about this whole story,
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but also how to how to play the piano instantly
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with little and no sheet music and based on just breathing, relaxing,
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getting into the flow. A totally different paradigm for playing
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the piano. It's not a matter of spending years studying
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toime signatures, learning how to read uh and uh and
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uh and you know, practicing. I have so many different
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approaches to play in the piano here, Like I tell people,
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don't practice, play play the piano.
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What do we all?
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Right? So that's that's a You've had a wonderful life journey, Sonny.
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So tell us as to how you're top. How did
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you happen on piano yoga?
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The piano yoga thing came as a result of.
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Uh, my background also in teaching yoga and meditations, ch
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just management and and playing the piano. So why did
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I call it a piano yoga? People used to ask me, Sonny,
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they used to see me play to go show me
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how to play. But I don't want to learn how
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to read. I don't want to spend years studying talking
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show me something quick. So I got just thinking that people,
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you know, there was a whole I would say most
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people don't want.
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To sit down and spend spend years studying.
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Time signatures and learning to read. They just want to
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sit down and play. So I started developing little exercises
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and techniques to show them, and before long I realized
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that if you just sit down at the piano, you
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don't have.
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To learn to read.
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You could just sit down and start playing. The piano
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is so easy to play. In fact, if you can
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get around on a computer keyboard you can you already
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know how to play the piano because you already have
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the eye, hand coordination and intuition to play. So I
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started giving lessons in how to do this, and before
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I knew it, I had a whole philosophy based on
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my background and on how to play the piano because
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I had the studio right here, uh where I was
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able to teach, and and also just in the video tours,
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I was always giving people tips on how to play
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the piano quickly without learning to read. So thus it
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became called piano yoga Sonny's piano yoga, and there's.
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Nothing like it out there.
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Most of the methods on YouTube, they're still trying to
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teach you the old way of doing it, just fun easy,
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not fun, but more easy ways.
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Uh.
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My approach is totally fun. It's based on mindfulness, being
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in the here and now. And also it's very similar
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to soundback therapy tho it's looking at the piano from
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a totally totally different perspective. Instead of something you've got
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a master and you've got to suffer to play, it's
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something that it's just magical. It's it's it's healing because
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you can just set at the piano and noddle around.
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It's not about playing perfectly. It's about enjoying yourself. It's
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about having fun, taking its time. And this is necessary
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because right now, less and less people are playing the
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piano because they think that again, the kids, the kids
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think they got they gotta study, they gotta they gotta practice.
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They don't want to do that. They just want to
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sit down, and you can.
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You can just sit down and even if you want
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to play songs, you could learn a few chord patterns.
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And once you learn a couple of chord patterns, where
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you go so anybody could play well.
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You gotta do is sit down.
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Let's say our audience wants to get started well, and
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so walk us through. Because you say that you know anybody,
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especially like you know for a person like me, I
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don't have a sound, I mean a year for the
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musical sound. You mentioned that anybody can play instantly, So
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tell us how we can go about that.
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Okay, Well, one of the things that had away I
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would let's say I was teaching you. One of the
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things I would say to you is that we all
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have musical ability. It's it's a myth that you have
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to have musical talent to play an instrument. You don't
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have to have musical talent. It's not about being the best.
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It's about enjoying yourself. Matter who you're playing for, you're
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playing for you. So people sit down at the piano
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right away that they oh, that sounds terrible for people
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tell them when they're kids, you know you have no talent,
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don't you don't even waste your time? What are they
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talking about?
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The piano just.
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Like sound bout therapy gives certain frequencies that are very healing.
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So the idea that you have you might think that
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you have.
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No ability and no talent not true. It's just that
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you weren't exposed to the opportunity to sit down at
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the piano. So what I tell people who do right
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away is once they get away from the fear, the
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fear that they'll be laughed at, or the fear that
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they're no good, or the fear that.
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They have no talent.
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Once they get away from the fear, there is no fear.
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That's why I call it the breed relax, flow and
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enjoying mindfulness method. You're just The whole concept is to
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sit at the piano, breathe, relax.
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It's a form of meditation. It's an energy box.
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Try to just step away from Oh I can't hit
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the wrong note.
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Got none of that.
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It's all about playing. You playing your music, and if
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you want, I can chew chords. But basically I just
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tell people sit down at the piano. And what I
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usually do is tell them to just play the black
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notes and just flow long. I call it the black
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note flow lesson. So if you can get to a
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keyboard or a piano, it's preferable to have a piano
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because the piano is made of wood and cotton and metal,
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and that is like itself, draws the life force energy,
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very joys, joys.
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To cheat, it increases your cheap. The piano is.
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Just like something that's it's just it's just starting to
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be seen as a meditative device and tool.
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So what I'm going to tell people to do.
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What I would say to you would be, okay, just
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damn breathe, relax, you can just stretch a little bit,
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you know, I'll do a little listen, and we're just
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gonna play the black notes. Instead of looking at this
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is this is c shop, that's a minor. This is
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uh be forget about that. Look at it as black
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notes and the white notes, and we're just gonna play
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the black notes right now.
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We're gonna hold the damper pedal. The damper pedal makes
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the sound least.
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So if you hold the pedal just that, I'm not
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sure how well you can hear it over the zoom.
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But so I would just say, just why I call
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the black note lesson.
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Is because I'm just gonna play the black notes and
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we're just gonna flow. So just I would tell people,
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I would tell you to do this. Walk up the keyboard,
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get familiar with the keyboard, walk down.
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The keyboard, just get to know. Just play.
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And when you played just the black notes, you're in
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the keys shop and everything comes together.