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So that's how we do. And let's bring in our guest.
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Welcome, Becky, thank you, thanks for having me. It's good
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to be here.
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Absolutely so share with us if you recall a moment
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or a person from your youth or childhood that left
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a positive mark on you.
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Oh gosh, I've I've been blessed. I've had many, you know.
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I I would probably say my godmother, my aunt. She
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just uh, she was a teacher. She just had a
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very positive outlook on life. Watched her, you know, raise
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a family, have career, uh, loved children, just loved the beach.
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Uh just really had and had such a heart for hospitality.
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Grew up in the Midwest and battled breast cancer and
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just always had a positive outlook on everything.
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Just enjoyed life.
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She was always happy, she had a lot of wit,
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just enjoyable and always a safe place to land.
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M definitely so Midwest. I can definitely tell you, like
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we had gone to Minnesota and like kind of went
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through Wisconsin and the neighboring states, and I forget the
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name of the National park in Minnesota, beautiful, beautiful place.
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And as we you know, drove down through, people were
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so lovely, very nice and so friendly. So I definitely
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get that.
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So it's a great, a tremendous extended family in the Midwest,
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and you know they come from roots of farming and
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just you know, really good family people.
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I forget the name of a town. And they were
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like Norwegian people and just so helpful, like every turn
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that we made, just smiling, and it almost seemed like
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a town out of Hallmark movie.
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So kind of coming back to your story. As you
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grew up, did you have any specific interests.
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I think sports athletics was kind of around our family
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all the time.
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So I enjoyed. I enjoyed the water.
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I enjoyed We did a lot of activities and I
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enjoyed the beach, the water, water skiing, you know, things
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like that. And I don't know exactly where, but somewhere
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along the way there was probably my mom. You know,
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this thread towards business and this thread towards watching the markets.
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You know, I dabble in the markets on a regular basis.
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I follow the markets closely. I'm trading every day. You know,
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those are just kind of like some interest I had.
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And although I started out on the educational side, I
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always had kind of this. I was always looking beyond
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that from just always had an interest on the business side.
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Yeah, no, definitely, And right now the markets are all
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over the place, but that's outside. Like okay, So tell me,
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Like you mentioned about the education, So what was that
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time in your life and how did that pen out?
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You know, I always liked school and so so going
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to school was you know, I liked it.
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I enjoyed school all the way through.
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You know, my teachers just I know some people just
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you know, struggle with school per se, you know, but
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you know, I always enjoyed it, and I think, you know,
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Both my parents didn't go to college, so you know,
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for them, it was kind of new territory.
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When I was seventeen, I decided I wanted to go
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away to school, and so I just kind of made
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that venture and I did that, and then I ended
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up getting an undergraduate and graduate degree, and at the
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time it was health and physical education, and then I
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went back later and got an MBA. I'm in the
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process of I'm an older parent with a gen Z
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daughter that's just getting ready to graduate high school and
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moving into those decisions. And you know, from an education standpoint,
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so much has changed, you know. I mean, we could
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spend an enormous amount of time just talking about that,
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and especially young people today and the way they're learning
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and the way they look at things. But you know,
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the traditional paths of declaring a major, doing one thing
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and one job, so much of that has changed. You know,
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it's estimated now that we're going to have twelve somewhere
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close to a dozen jobs and three to seven different careers.
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And so you know, you have a workforce, an economy,
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and a world that is changing at such a rapid
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speed as you know, and your work and AI. But
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you have that, and you have all of that is
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also perpetuating the way young people are learning today. Yeah,
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so have all of these things kind of playing a
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role at the same time and.
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Different opportunities.
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Yeah, so you mentioned that, you know, people are going
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to have twelve jobs, and that's one of the things
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nobody talks about. People are still as you mentioned, people
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are still talking about the major and you know, with
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it having that straight path, so that's not there. So
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what does that mean for today's workforce?
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Well, I think number one, you know when you take
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a look and you know this in your background on technology,
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I mean the average amount of time that you know,
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skills can be outdated within six months anymore. So if
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we're not upscaling, rescaling, stacking skills and moving in that
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direction and constantly staying up with the tools in our
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industry or the lane that we're in and that we're
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working in, you're constantly going to be kind of running
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from behind. So I think we have that. And from
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a digital standpoint, digital literacy, data literacy, all of those
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skills related to that are huge today. But beyond that,
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you know, you've got to be nimble, and you've got
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to be able to be resourceful, and you've got to
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be able to pivot in And I talk about in
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my book. The first couple of chapters are just related
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to the foundation of job security today because so much
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of that has changed. And you know, we grew up
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at a time and you know, my parents and generations
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where it was one or two jobs and you had
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that job security. And I think we as individuals, we
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want to be able to believe or think that the
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company's going to protect us, or the organization is going
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to protect us, or even our own business we're going
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to be able to rely on And you just can't
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rely on any of those things anymore. And so, you know,
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one of the other things I talk about in the
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book is developing, you know, the number one essential skill,
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and that's to be able to monetize your skills and
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know how to do.
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That and be able to leverage.
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So it's really important that I try to tell my
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daughter to think multiple careers.
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Now many careers.
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You know, if you may start out in this and
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this is going to be where you want to start out,
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and that's great. And there are some people that are
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going to start out and stay in the same lane
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and that's great too. And if they have a passion
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and they're performing and they're growing and they're learning and
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they love what they're doing, then you know, more power
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to them and they should stay there. But for the
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way and changing, it's got to be you know, you
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have to be very nimble today.
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Yeah, definitely. So it brings up a couple of talking points.
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One is that you know, it's important to be reskilling
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all the time. So now when you're talking about reskilling
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based on the experience, what would you recommend for our
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audience reskilling in their own line of work? Are looking
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for the others?
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Yeah, so I think it's really important if they have
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a direction and they have a path. I think it's
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super important because you know, the reskilling is just one
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component of it. But if you don't know where you're going,
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or you don't know you know what you want to
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be doing next or what your plan is, then there's
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so many opportunities to reskill you can kind of get lost.
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It's the same with the tools that we use today.
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Right, So it's it's important that they think about what
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they're doing now and what does it look like in
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that in their industry or in their particular sector in
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their industry, and what are the new tools coming and
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where do they want to If they're going to stay
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in that lane, then they have to stay up with
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what's happening in that particular sector so that they're ahead
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of the head of the path, you know.
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Mm hmm, So definitely. So what I'm hearing is that
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having that clarity around where they're going and also knowing, like,
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you know, what are their strengths because the skills are transferable.
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So as you mentioned, you know, before you jump into
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the reskilling, be clear about it, like where you're going
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and what are your strengths, and then depending on that
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also looking into where the market is going. And when
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we talk about market, it's about different companies the different directions.
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So for currently, you know, AI has taken over and
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the whole landscape has changed. So what are your thoughts
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on that.
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Yeah, it's you know, market timing is really important and
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I don't care what field or industry you go into.
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You know, I started out.
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I started my business thirty years ago because I couldn't
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find a job and I at the time I wanted
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to be in women's sports marketing and there was no
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business or industry or market there. So I created a
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publication in the industry and from there I created a
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sports marketing agency and then the online career center and
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all of these things. But I created these things, but
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I also and then I started my search firm twenty
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twenty five years ago with a specialty in women in
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diversity hiring. And you know, back then it was just
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a success to get a meeting on the topic. But
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timing is important, so you know, and you take a
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look at where we are now, and you take a
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look at kind of some of the areas that I
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was in, and market timing is critical, So.
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I think that's important.
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You know, you look at evs and what's happening electric vehicles,
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and twenty years ago, nobody thought that was going to
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be anything to be part of today. But you know,
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you look at the auto industry as an example, and
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now you've got to have people that are capable of
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fixing these vehicles and doing these types of things. So
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it is important to know where industries are going and
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where the growth looks like it's going to be in