June 9, 2026

Why Joy May Be the Medicine We’re Missing

Why Joy May Be the Medicine We’re Missing
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In this uplifting episode, Divya Parekh speaks with artist and former nurse practitioner Edi Matsumoto about her journey from healthcare to art. Inspired by compassion and creativity, Edi created Otter Therapy, a whimsical series using humor and playful otter paintings to bring joy and emotional renewal. They explore healing through art, midlife reinvention, community building, and why laughter and wonder can be powerful forms of medicine.

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Good morning listeners, it's Tuesday, and of course, as always,

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it's a joy to be with you. And with everything

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happening in the world, people are hurting, people are experiencing challenges,

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and yet the joy of being alive is always there

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and how can we bring that joy back in even

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in the midst of hardest of hardest times. So one

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of the things that is going on is the artificial intelligence,

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where it is on one hand, leveling the playing field

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where people can do so many things that they were

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not able to do before. And on the other hand,

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it's a harsh reality that jobs are being gone, even

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though we're not seeing it completely right now, but they're

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massively off happening. So when people are going for interview,

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what separates them from the other people who have their

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answers from AI? So the key is as to how

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they are thinking. It is separating the strategic thinkers from

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just AI generated answers. And if you are looking to

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do that, or even if you're looking to grow in

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your profession, or if you're an entrepreneur, How do you

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go out there and stand out, not in the social

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media noise, but not also in the digital footprint, but

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in the era of AI. Get our book the AI Agency,

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and of course there are other books. Thank you for

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getting our books because part of the partial proceeds go

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to kiwa dot org. And let's talk about bringing that

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joy amidst all the fears that exist.

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Malcolm, Ddie, thank you for having me, Davia glad to

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be here.

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Well, it's great to have you. So Eddie, do you

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recall a moment there in your early life or later

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somebody or some situation left the post to mark on you.

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Oh, there are so many, but let's start on the

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early part. So when I was in high school, I

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read a book about mother Trisa and that she left

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a big mark on my heart, and I thought she

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was the coolest a person. She got a calling and

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that's what she wanted to do in her life and

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she did it. So that's what I thought. She was

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the coolest person. Despite all odds. She accomplished so much,

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and so I decided I wanted to meet her and

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that I was able to meet her at Meet and

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Greet while she was in visiting Japan. I'm originally from Japan,

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but I really wanted to go where she actually does

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what she does. So after college, I flew to India

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and volunteered at Home Foro Dying Destitute in Calcutta. And

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I volunteered there and I was able to meet her again.

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She I did a little bit shook hands. So I

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was really happy being able to be in her presence

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and joyful presence despite all the hard work she does.

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But on the other hand, I saw many other volunteers

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who are healthcare professionals doing studying an ivy, dressing the wound.

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I had no medical training at that point, so I

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was only feed the people or put a powder on

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the patients after their bath. That was all I could do.

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So I said, someday, if I were to come back

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or do something like this, I really need more training.

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And that's the beginning of my healthcare career.

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Ah and Japan. People have such a fascination for Japan

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because there's so many ikey guy and you know those

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philosophical principles that have been gifted to the world, Yes,

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from the culture of Japan. So what are a couple

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of things that you carried with yourself from Japan.

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So it's funny you mentioned I Guy right after bad

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because that's one of my guiding principles. So ikey guy,

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you know, I when I was in Japan, I simply

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thought of that as life's purpose. But as it was

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introduced to the world, people in the English speaking world

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started to understand the ikey guy, which is the intersection

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of what you love, what you're good at, and what

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the world needs and what can sustain you, you know,

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meaning you can have income from that. And you know,

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after I struggled a little bit, after I left healthcare

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system and became an entrepreneur, gallery owner, artist, I found

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ikey guy all over again. Healthcare was my ike Guy

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at the beginning, after mother trisser and working as a

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nurs practitioner for thirty almost thirty years, but then that

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changed over time. And now you know, as an artist

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having my own gallery, doing what I love to do

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every day and people love it and I can make

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a living doing it, so it's so joyful. It's Ekey Guy.

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Every single day I'm leaving my Ekey Guide. So I

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think that is a gift from Japan the concept to the.

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World, absolutely, and there are other concepts like from Linsi

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Sigma that I have used, Kenman and Kaisen and it's

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just I'm definitely a fan of a lot of the

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principles from Japan. So you mentioned that Mother Teresa's joyful presence,

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So what can you share a couple of things about her, like,

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you know, what did you experience with her? What did

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you take away from your meetings with her?

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Yes, she is a tiny little person, but you can

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I kind of have an image that like an energizer bunny,

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she's running around this little home for dying destitute this way,

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that way. But you know, but she has the presence.

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She talks to each patient, each volunteer, and she has

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the presence full of love, care for every single person,

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and also joyful and she jokes around. She's laughing in

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this little temple full of dying people. But it's it's

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a very solemn and serious place on one hand, but

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on the other hand, the people who are walking there

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there seems to be content, you know, loving what they're doing,

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helping everybody. And so she's leading this and she's you know,

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taking care of patients, touching everybody, but On the other hand,

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I see her in the distance one time and she's

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walking with a nice gentleman, and that somebody whispers to me,

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you know who that is that gentleman. He's the Prime

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Minister from France. So she's so humble and so unassuming

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that she is talking to you know, she's a friend

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with the Princess Diana, or the royalties and all the

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you know, the head of the States, and so she

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just handles this beautifully without any ego, any self consciousness.

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She does what she does step by step, and she's

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and also I went to the mass at the Missionaries

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of Charity, and I thought she would be presiding over

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the whole thing, but then no, she came a little

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bit late, and she sat in the very back, very quiet,

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and nobody would have noticed her, only because I was

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looking for where is she? Where is she? So she's

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very humble, yet she's huge in that little tiny body,

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but just she's you know, have this quite small and

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just feel the energy the aura that love. So she's

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amazing and I was so so lucky to have been

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able to talk to her and shook hands and that

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I remember she had the softest hand. I was expecting

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really rough, callousy hand with all the things she does,

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but she got the softest, warmest hand. I never forget

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that I was only eighteen or so when that happened.

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Well, what a blessing. And you mentioned that you were

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in the healthcare because she inspired you to go and

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help people. So what was your journey like as a

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norse practitioner.

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So after I volunteered at the Mother Trice's home for

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the institute, I thought I needed to do something, and

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I also needed to learn English better. So I came

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to the US and enrolled in English as a second language.

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Then I started to do nurses AID. Since the vocational nursing,

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I'll ben and RN and master's degree in Nurse Practitioner.

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It's a lot, you know. It's always like this in

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my life. Something I need to do, it unfolds itself.

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Somebody will tell me, because I did know anything about

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LVN or nurs practitioner. But when it's time, somebody will

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tell me, oh, here's another program you might be good

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for you and I go there and do it. And

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then after I got my RN, somebody tell me, oh,

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there's such thing as nurse practitioner. You might be interested

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in Okay, I'll look into it. And I did it.

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So over eight years, I'm going to school, I'm working

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in the evening at the hospital. So I did both

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for about eight years until I got my master's degree

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for nurs practitioner. And I loved taking care of patients.

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I loved working in a hospital. So I felt like, yeah,

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I did it. I'm working on my mission like mother Trisa.

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So I really love the interaction with the patients every day.

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And then after I finished working at the floor nursing,

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I became an instructition at my own office. I had

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a corner office, beautiful corner office. I was able to

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schedule my patients the way I like it, so I

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had an ideal setting. My husband is a physician, and

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he's always jealous of my position. Like you're working, you know,

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at your own pace, and you have weekends off and

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evening it's off and holidays off, and I'm working evenings

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and uncles. He was always jealous of me. But over time,

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you know, I was in healthcare for almost thirty years,

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and over time, the computer caming you mentioned AI, the

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computer came in and we have to do more and

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more documentation in a computer and there's more regulation, more insurance,

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more restrictions, and we were not able to as a

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healthcare provider. We were not able to practice medicine as

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the way we used to patients. Patient was not the

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center anymore. It was about liability, productivities, and documentation. It

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became a center stage, not patients. So it wasn't just me,

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but a lot of healthcare professionals. Clinicians started to get

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more stressed out, burned out, depressed, and I saw that

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in so many of my colleagues. And that's when I

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got involved into National Academy of Medicine Clinician Well Being Committee,

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and yeah, so because it became a national issue and

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more clinicians committing suicidey depressed, having PTSD, so it was

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a serious problem. This is even before COVID and the

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studied in nineteen seventeen or eighteen or twenty eighteen. Sorry,

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And so I wanted to be part of it. And

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luckily I started to painting in about two thousand and eight,

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so I already had ten years of art education, and

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when the National Academy of Medicine called for art artistic

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representation of clinician wellbeing and burnout, I had a whole

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body of work deficting healthcare professionals good days and bad days.

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I submitted several of them, and they picked one of

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my portraits of my husband kind of looking depressed as

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kind of a postal void for depression and clinical clinicians burnout.

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So that's how I got involved in this kind of

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prevention of burnout using art as a healing tool involvement movement,

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So that's kind of but I started to use art

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for healing purposes. So yeah, I know.

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That is that is really really allowing to hear that

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clinicians were committing suicide, and because that patient care not

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being the center, you know, it takes away from the

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purpose of the clinicians what they're doing. And I can

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definitely say that that for some of the physicians that

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to record everything and as things are emerging, but having

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that piece of humanity. But I can definitely see why

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it caused a bone out. So since you mentioned that

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art therapy was coming into with the clinicians as well,

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so tell us how it has grown m HM.

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you know, kind of looking depressed. It's called at the

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end of the day. So he's holding his head, the

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faces half in shadow. And then first my husband did

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not like that, because why are you painting me like that?

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and so many people resonated with that painting. And it

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wasn't only healthcare professionals, but people who are maybe it

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could be teachers, could be anybody. But you know, people

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have this bad day at the end of the day.

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You're so exhausted, you know, you don't even want to communicate.

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you know, deep breath. So so many people resonated with

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that painting, and so that means, you know, that painting

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does have to be necessarily this beautiful, pretty colorful thing,

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but just depicting the reality with the emotion, strong emotion,

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people can connect. And because my husband, you know, at

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the beginning, he didn't like it, but he got so

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many good comments about it. Oh, I love your painting.

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This is so much I can totally relate. And now

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he loves the painting. And that's so I think it's

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that kind of depiction will tell people you're not alone

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in this. You're not the only person who are exhausted, depressed,

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stressed out to burn it out. So something kind of

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representing somebody's emotion. I think that's one of the elements

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of healing art at least.

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on social media, people are putting their best pictures. Right

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you see people even in hospitals have a smile on

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their face and that shows that they're brave. But you

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don't see many pictures where people are posting their pictures

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as reality that hey, I'm feeling this or so tell us, like,

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you know, how can our listeners and audience can take

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that art therapy and bring it into their lives.

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So there are you know, quite a few research done

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since then over the last ten, maybe even twenty years

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about art therapy and how much art has the power

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of healing, and that either you're going to be the

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artist's creator or just receiving and you're just viewing art.

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Either way, it does seem to have a huge impact

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on physiologically, emotionally, psychologically. So part of the let's say,

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so if you're cancer patients and try on art therapy.

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hospital clinics will have arto therapists, you know, the bigger

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hospital would have arto therapists and classes, so they will

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teach you some easy way to start art. And then

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number one, so you will learn something new. It's kind

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of a diverse and distraction from something that stressed you out.

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you do certain things and that can be meditative that

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again take your mind off of something else that stresses

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you and it's fun. You're doing with a bunch of

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other people and that that's kind of fun. It's a

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community working on something similar and also just using some

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kind of physical you know, using your hands. That's kind

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of fun. But also just that the process of creating

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using different parts of the brain from you might be

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in a rut thinking about what's going to happen to me,

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thinking about their health, but also use totally different parts

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of the brain being creative doing something new. So that

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will kind of start to create a new path in

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your brain. And so the research would show, you know,

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it will loyer broad pressure, loyal breathing rate, and the

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decreased code is all increase the well being, sense of

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well being, the sense of community. And also you're expressing

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yourself in the way you could not before. And many

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people have problem describing or expressing verbally, but they can

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do it the way they like it with the color,

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the shape, or the strength of the lines they draw,

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so they can express it something they could not express before.

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So there are so many different benefits, so I think,

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you know, people may want to give it a shot.

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I do teach art classes locally, mostly for beginners, and

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most of the people coming, oh, I'm such a bad artist.

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I can only drawstick figure. I cannot even draw stick figure.

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And I said, don't worry about it. You know, maybe

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summer somewhere in the past somebody told you your art

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is not good enough. But forget that. It's not for

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your teacher, it's not for any audience. It's for you

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to have fun. So I do like a coffee painting workshop.

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Only thing you use is coffee. You can drink coffee,

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but you can dip your brush, clean brush into the coffee, uh,

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and then sat drawing on a piece of paper and

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you might glue your crystal instant coffee or coffee beans

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on it and make a beautiful art. And it's all abstracted.

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When I first start teaching them, I do abstract So

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that's not wrong picture. There's no wrong answer. Everything is

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a masterpiece. Just give it a shot however you like it,

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and people have fun because you know nobody's watching there,

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nobody's judging you good or bad, so they express it.

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Even some people who had oh I'm a bad artist.

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just do something fun and it doesn't have to be

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visual art. Many people come into my gallery that, oh,

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I'm not an artist. I wish I could do something

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like you do. No, I know you're an artist. You

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just don't know it. You're not admitting it, or it's

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just a totally different outlet. I'm sure you're a better

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cook than I am, or you're a better gardener than

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I am. Or maybe a musician, you sing, dance, whatever,

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a poetry blogger, whatever, you can write better. So you

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are an artist, you just don't know that. It took

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me many, many years before I can admit and call

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myself an artist. So I just encourage everybody to pick

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up something that you think you enjoy. What did you

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enjoy when you were five years old? Did you like

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to draw? Did you like to dance? You know, go

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back and start doing it. It's fun, like you know,

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as they say, like nobody's watching or saying like nobody's listening. Yeah.

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Yeah. So what I'm hearing, Eddie is that find an

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outlet for expression and then all that pentap energy, all

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of that. So what you're doing is that things that

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are just weighing heavily on your mind and the weight

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of emotions that you're carrying. And when you find that art,

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you're letting it out and you are expressing, and you

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are making use of all the other parts. And especially

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like if you're doing art, like you are using all

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the senses. If you think about it, it's touch, maybe

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not a smell, but you're using multiple of your sensory

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organs and that can create such a rich experience and

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that you can carry because as you're sharing that, it

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doesn't have to be just one thing. Whatever speaks to you.

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So tell us about your journey, like you mentioned, and

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that you have created order series. So tell us how

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that evolved from the corporate of your husband.

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Let's see, So I was in healthcare and started to

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feel a little burning out. And that's when the art

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came into my life. So I really studied.

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First it was just.

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A personal enrichment to a hobby, but the more I

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find out about the healing power of art, I really

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got into it. Then decreased the hours at the hospital

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from full time to part time and use three days

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weekend to do more art. And yeah, so that was

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my way of work life balance. And then one day

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hospital asked me, you know, we really want you back

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to full time and because we value your work. And

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we talked about this before and you didn't want it,

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but this time you better go back to full time

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because otherwise we're going to eliminate your part time position.

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So I thought, oh, that's an interesting way to approach it.

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And but if you put it that way, even though

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I'm going to lose my insurance, income, benefits all that,

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but I'd rather be free. I'd rather go into art

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and do my own thing. So I'm going to resign

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from the hospital position. So it was scary and it

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was a big leap, but I needed it. So here

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I am. I know nothing about business, nothing about sales

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or marketing. So about two three years. That was sort

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of the dark night of the soul. I'm trying to,

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you know, make a living as an artist and didn't

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know anything about selling business. But at the same time

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I was learning like crazy, I'm investing. I use my

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saving to invest in myself in education, new kind of education,

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in coaching, learning, business, marketing. Mindset shift. That was big

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mindset shift that you know, I don't have to be

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a starving artist. I can be a profitable, thriving artist.

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So that was about two three years of incubation period

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and at the end I got two things. Another wise artist,

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you told me, if you want to make a living

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as an artist in this area, Mote Cameo area, we're

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famous for our beautiful coastline and also forest and so

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landscape sales, sea scape cells, but also sea auto sells.

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So I was so I thought, well, I've done landscapes

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and sea scapes and they're nice, but they're not my passion.

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So I give see arter a shot. See what happens.

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So I painted a few sea arters, people loved it,

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sold quickly, and then by chance again this is my

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life story. At the right time, some right person will

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come and giving the right path and a sea. Auto

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researcher contacted me by email. I love your order. I

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bought your order in the past, and now I want

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you to paint the scream edward munches over here scream

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painting and put an other face instead of human face

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because I must see auto researcher. So I thought, that's

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a great idea. I'd love to do that, and I

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painted other scream. She loved it. I loved it. And

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I also have an art business coach at the time,

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and he was kind of frustrated because I could not

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find a niche and uh so at this particular meeting,

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he says, so what's going on and do you have

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any traction with something? So I said, yeah, see, others

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is picking up and I saw the som and I

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got this awesome commission to do this other scream and

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he loved the idea too, so and then we had

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this amazing brainstorm session. Oh yeah, you can do more

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a Lisa can do Girl with the Poorer Earie, we

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can do American Gothic, we can do Van Go, we

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can do because we can do da da da Da

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da da da. So it had a great time and

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then I got to work and I painted maybe about

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ten others. Girl the Poorer, Earring, the Vango, the Mona

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Lisa behind me, if somebody people can see it. So

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and then that's about the same time. I opened my

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own gallery twenty twenty four in spring, and I put

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some orders in the front windows. And as soon as

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I opened my gallery, people start to come in, or

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even if they don't come in, they're laughing their head

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off looking at it. Scream Ords or Mona Otter and

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they're laughing, having a great time. And people who do

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come in they want to see more ords. No what

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else do you get? You know, and people start to

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buy other paintings or prints. And so as soon as

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I opened the gallery, orter therapy. I'll come back to

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auto therapy. But you know, this out series speaks a hit.

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And so I was able to sustain my gallery and

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art career with my orders. And what I did not

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expect was not only my orders help people smile and laugh,

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It turned out they are healing as well in some cases. Yeah,

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so that was an expect of it. Yeah. So some

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people who cannot afford to buy anything, even you prints

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or anything, but I'll give them either business card or

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postcard and they'll take them home and put it on

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a refrigerator or on the wall, and they would come

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back and tell me or send me an email. You

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know your order, you know, I just look at it

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every day. That makes me smile. I'm an old lady,

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I live alone. I'm lonely, but when I look at

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your other it makes me smile, so it kind of

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keeps me company. So that's one comment that came early on.

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Another one is another older lady who lives alone, and

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that she had a surgery, but she already bought maybe

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ten of my orders to decorate the wall, just because

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she loved them. And after the surgery, I didn't hear

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from her for about three months, and finally she contacted me.

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You know, the surgery didn't go very well. I was

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in a lot of pain. I was so depressed. But

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when I look at your orders, they make me smile,

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so it just eased my pain. So made my day

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so like. So that's when I realized that my orders

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are healing. So I haven't left the healing serving profession,

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the mission that I learned from mother t research. So

460
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I'm still helping people, serving people with my little other

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therapist out there in the world. So that kind of

462
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came full circle into the mission. And so that's why

463
00:30:54.640 --> 00:30:58.079
I started to call this other therapy. If you're smiling,

464
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it's working. You don't have to buy anything, just look

465
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at the window, have a good laugh, and have a

466
00:31:04.079 --> 00:31:07.799
good day. So that's my other therapy.

467
00:31:08.319 --> 00:31:12.279
Oh that's beautiful. How you transferred to your healing energy

468
00:31:12.440 --> 00:31:19.240
from nurse practitioner into your paintings, because then you paint

469
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especially like you did not know about this, but now

470
00:31:22.880 --> 00:31:26.039
since you know that your orders are healing other people,

471
00:31:27.319 --> 00:31:30.599
what has changed for you as you paint more order paintings.

472
00:31:33.519 --> 00:31:40.039
That's a good question. Yeah, so I connect with the customers.

473
00:31:40.440 --> 00:31:44.000
This is not a typical gallery. There are seventy eighty

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galleries in Cameo by the Sea, and most of the

475
00:31:48.319 --> 00:31:52.720
galleries are commercial gallery, meaning the artist is not there,

476
00:31:53.200 --> 00:31:55.680
you know. But I'm here all the time and I'm

477
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painting here. So we have a conversation and a lot

478
00:31:59.440 --> 00:32:02.640
of time store will come in and ask me what

479
00:32:02.799 --> 00:32:09.920
others they want next. So, oh, you utter paint Steph Currier,

480
00:32:10.039 --> 00:32:14.480
your utter paint bridal Otter or your out paint this

481
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and that. So I'm taking notes. I have like one

482
00:32:18.200 --> 00:32:22.400
hundred more orthers to paint at this point. But if

483
00:32:22.440 --> 00:32:27.519
people ask me, like multiple people ask me, then there

484
00:32:27.559 --> 00:32:30.960
is the need. You know, people want to see certain

485
00:32:31.160 --> 00:32:35.599
others drinking coffee or eating cookies or looking like a

486
00:32:35.599 --> 00:32:38.119
little baby shaving the food in the mouse not cut

487
00:32:38.200 --> 00:32:41.839
little orters. So people give me different ideas. They're there

488
00:32:41.960 --> 00:32:45.240
ideal version of the orders they want to see that

489
00:32:45.480 --> 00:32:49.359
soothes them, that make them smile. So I'm incorporating a

490
00:32:49.400 --> 00:32:54.880
lot of those. So yeah, So lots of ideas come

491
00:32:54.920 --> 00:32:58.319
from my customers and it's kind of a collaboration.

492
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Yeah, that is beautiful, addie. So what are some couple

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of things that you can share with our listeners that

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they can take it today and bring it in their

495
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lives to bring enjoy humor.

496
00:33:15.160 --> 00:33:19.720
So yeah, maybe going back to ikey guy, so what

497
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you love to do? I'm also a life coach and

498
00:33:24.920 --> 00:33:30.559
wellness coach, and so that the coach in me come

499
00:33:30.680 --> 00:33:34.400
out when I'm talking to you know, visitors come in

500
00:33:34.400 --> 00:33:37.799
here and I often ask them because they're admiring arts.

501
00:33:37.799 --> 00:33:41.119
So I often ask and are you an artist? What

502
00:33:41.240 --> 00:33:44.599
do you create? And some of them say yes, and

503
00:33:44.680 --> 00:33:47.039
some of them say, nah, I'm not an artist. So

504
00:33:47.079 --> 00:33:50.839
I try to kind of dig something out of them.

505
00:33:51.160 --> 00:33:54.039
So tell me more what you like to do. So

506
00:33:54.079 --> 00:33:56.319
I'm trying to get that ikey guy out of them.

507
00:33:56.440 --> 00:33:58.599
So what do you like to do? What gives you joy?

508
00:33:58.880 --> 00:34:02.240
What kind of activity is that? The music? Gardening? So

509
00:34:02.319 --> 00:34:04.880
I think it's good to kind of go back and

510
00:34:04.960 --> 00:34:07.559
you can find how to find ikey guy with those

511
00:34:07.599 --> 00:34:10.760
four questions. What you love, what you're good at, and

512
00:34:10.840 --> 00:34:13.280
sometimes what you are good at you may not know.

513
00:34:13.480 --> 00:34:19.000
That was one of my problems. I liked art in general,

514
00:34:19.239 --> 00:34:23.679
but it only took my husband's insistence for me to

515
00:34:23.679 --> 00:34:26.400
go to art school. Just, you know, give you a

516
00:34:26.480 --> 00:34:31.360
quick story. I was not really interested in learning art

517
00:34:32.000 --> 00:34:35.679
or you know, becoming an artist. That was not my

518
00:34:35.760 --> 00:34:38.719
life plan. But I did a little quick sketch when

519
00:34:38.719 --> 00:34:43.039
I was in spring break during college, and then I

520
00:34:43.079 --> 00:34:45.239
had it in a pile of paper, and when I

521
00:34:45.280 --> 00:34:49.599
got together with my husband, I show it to my husband. Oh, look,

522
00:34:49.639 --> 00:34:52.719
this is what I did when I was vacation in Paris.

523
00:34:53.000 --> 00:34:56.840
Just I was bored because everything was closed on Easter Sunday,

524
00:34:57.239 --> 00:34:59.239
nothing else to do. I just did a little quick

525
00:34:59.320 --> 00:35:03.320
sketch and then I tossed it in that trash and

526
00:35:03.639 --> 00:35:06.000
he said, what are you doing. I said, well, it's

527
00:35:06.119 --> 00:35:08.239
just the old piece of paper. I'm tossing it. I'm

528
00:35:08.239 --> 00:35:11.400
cleaning things up. And my husband said, you know, that's

529
00:35:11.400 --> 00:35:14.960
amazing art. You cannot throw it away. We're gonna frame it.

530
00:35:15.559 --> 00:35:18.800
We're gonna display in the dining room. You should go

531
00:35:18.840 --> 00:35:24.320
to art school. So my mother's side has lots of artists,

532
00:35:24.320 --> 00:35:26.639
amateur artists. They can draw, they can paint, they can

533
00:35:26.679 --> 00:35:30.400
make some leather craft. So it was nothing special for me.

534
00:35:30.880 --> 00:35:35.119
So it took my husband to recognize the artist in me,

535
00:35:35.320 --> 00:35:38.920
and he insisted that I go to art school and

536
00:35:39.039 --> 00:35:43.599
cultivate andnurture the artistic talent. So sometimes you may have

537
00:35:43.679 --> 00:35:46.199
to ask around your family, your friends, what do you

538
00:35:46.199 --> 00:35:48.960
think I'm good at? You know, because if it's your

539
00:35:48.960 --> 00:35:51.760
own nature, you may not know that. So first what

540
00:35:51.840 --> 00:35:54.039
you love to do and what you're good at, ask

541
00:35:54.079 --> 00:35:58.960
your friends or family, and then something that the world needs.

542
00:35:58.280 --> 00:36:01.800
And then you can make a living. So you do

543
00:36:01.960 --> 00:36:05.000
the little you know, set aside sometime and do that.

544
00:36:05.639 --> 00:36:08.159
But most of all, as I give you joy, but

545
00:36:08.320 --> 00:36:12.119
give you joy, so joy be your guide. So whatever

546
00:36:12.159 --> 00:36:16.400
that feels good, you know, go towards that direction. So

547
00:36:16.559 --> 00:36:19.639
you know, get away from the something that pulls you down.

548
00:36:19.880 --> 00:36:22.639
You know, people the same thing, people who lift you up.

549
00:36:23.559 --> 00:36:25.760
You know, go with a person, the hang out with

550
00:36:25.800 --> 00:36:29.760
those people and get a coach. And I have so

551
00:36:29.840 --> 00:36:34.800
many coaches or business mindset as I mentioned, So hang

552
00:36:34.880 --> 00:36:38.599
out with the people who would elevate you and try

553
00:36:38.639 --> 00:36:43.159
to mirror after somebody, learn from somebody who are doing

554
00:36:43.199 --> 00:36:48.159
what you're doing. So, you know, because people have accomplished

555
00:36:48.159 --> 00:36:51.079
something that you want to do already or at least

556
00:36:51.199 --> 00:36:54.320
no part of the way. So instead of trying to

557
00:36:54.400 --> 00:36:58.000
invent the wheel from scratch, you know, just learn from

558
00:36:58.039 --> 00:37:00.599
the expert. You know, they can guide you, you know,

559
00:37:00.679 --> 00:37:03.239
take you to the next step. And that's what I'm doing.

560
00:37:03.519 --> 00:37:06.039
And I have probably like twenty coaches in my life

561
00:37:06.119 --> 00:37:08.719
so far, so you know, a certain person take me

562
00:37:08.840 --> 00:37:12.519
to this area in finance, in the business, in the

563
00:37:12.639 --> 00:37:16.920
mindset and art. So I just you know, and I'm

564
00:37:17.119 --> 00:37:23.000
so grateful for all those people. And that's another key word, gratitude.

565
00:37:23.480 --> 00:37:30.360
So just appreciate everything you're doingly. Yeah, and that oh sorry,

566
00:37:30.639 --> 00:37:34.280
I was going to mention earlier something about burnout. So

567
00:37:34.840 --> 00:37:38.880
burnout happens when you don't find joining what you're doing.

568
00:37:39.679 --> 00:37:45.360
So you know, I spend about seventy seventy hours a

569
00:37:45.440 --> 00:37:48.320
week in my gallery just because I want to do it.

570
00:37:49.039 --> 00:37:51.559
If I did it in my clinic the way it

571
00:37:51.800 --> 00:37:54.480
was with the computer, work seventy hours, it'll totally burn

572
00:37:54.559 --> 00:37:57.840
me out. But when you're enjoying what you're doing, if

573
00:37:57.840 --> 00:38:00.519
it's your egy guy, if you find joining doing it,

574
00:38:00.800 --> 00:38:03.719
I don't get burnout. It's just pure fun. I cannot

575
00:38:03.760 --> 00:38:07.880
get enough of painting time and interaction with my customers.

576
00:38:08.400 --> 00:38:11.760
So you know, burnout is not just working hard or

577
00:38:11.800 --> 00:38:15.559
working many hours. It's lack of joy, lack of alignment,

578
00:38:16.280 --> 00:38:18.199
you know, with your value in your life.

579
00:38:18.880 --> 00:38:25.320
Absolutely, so that is such a I really like what

580
00:38:25.400 --> 00:38:29.280
you said. Let joy be your guide as you're discovering yourself.

581
00:38:30.480 --> 00:38:33.119
So how can people connect with you? Where can they

582
00:38:33.119 --> 00:38:34.840
find your gallery?

583
00:38:35.360 --> 00:38:39.719
Okay, my website is my name Ediematsmotel dot com, E

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D I M A T s U M O T

585
00:38:43.000 --> 00:38:46.599
L dot com or you can look up other therapy

586
00:38:46.840 --> 00:38:51.320
on Amazon by Ediemat's model. And my gallery is in

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00:38:51.519 --> 00:38:56.960
downtown Carmel. It's on Mission Street. Yeah, it's on Mission Street.

588
00:38:57.039 --> 00:39:00.960
And interestingly Carmel is the only town in United States

589
00:39:01.039 --> 00:39:06.519
that doesn't have physical address. I cannot tell you although

590
00:39:06.559 --> 00:39:09.960
it's supposed to be after one hundred years of battle

591
00:39:10.960 --> 00:39:14.360
to have a physical address or not. Now we are

592
00:39:14.400 --> 00:39:17.679
about to have a physical address, or possibly it's five

593
00:39:18.039 --> 00:39:22.239
thirty nine Mission Street that it's not come firmed yet. Anyway,

594
00:39:22.280 --> 00:39:25.880
I'm on Mission Street and fifth in Camel downtown, Camel

595
00:39:25.960 --> 00:39:30.159
by the Sea on central California, about to ourself of

596
00:39:30.360 --> 00:39:34.679
San Francisco. It's a beautiful town, lots of gallery so

597
00:39:34.800 --> 00:39:36.719
you can have fun. But I'm the only one with

598
00:39:36.880 --> 00:39:38.440
other therapy.

599
00:39:39.440 --> 00:39:42.400
Carmel is beautiful because when we had taken trip down

600
00:39:42.519 --> 00:39:46.800
from La down to San Francisco on Highway one, just

601
00:39:47.000 --> 00:39:50.000
every little town on the way beautiful. Well, thank you

602
00:39:50.039 --> 00:39:56.360
for joining us. Eddie enjoyed our conversation and I'm sure

603
00:39:56.440 --> 00:40:00.000
your orders will keep on bringing joy to different people.

604
00:40:00.280 --> 00:40:02.440
And I'm sure audience, you know you can go check

605
00:40:02.480 --> 00:40:05.440
it out and maybe get a print for your own house.

606
00:40:06.119 --> 00:40:11.519
So thank you and thank you wonderful audience. I do

607
00:40:11.639 --> 00:40:15.599
want to share, even if somebody may not let you

608
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know that they may believe in you, I want to

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00:40:19.320 --> 00:40:21.559
let you know I believe in each and every one

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00:40:21.599 --> 00:40:25.000
of you, and I know that you can have that

611
00:40:25.159 --> 00:40:29.119
life full of joy and humor with heart and love.

612
00:40:30.320 --> 00:40:34.079
As we started out talking about Mother Teresa, bring that

613
00:40:34.159 --> 00:40:37.440
love in your heart and just by your presence, you'll

614
00:40:37.480 --> 00:40:40.440
be impacting others. So reach out to us. Let us

615
00:40:40.480 --> 00:40:44.960
know how we can serve and support you, because this

616
00:40:45.079 --> 00:40:49.159
show is for you and just for you, So do

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00:40:49.280 --> 00:40:54.840
let us know just like you always do and just

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want to share. We love you and we believe in you.

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So take care of yourself and Ron, thank you for

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your tech genius val and take care until next time.

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