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Good morning listeners, it's Tuesday, and of course, as always,
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it's a joy to be with you. And with everything
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happening in the world, people are hurting, people are experiencing challenges,
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and yet the joy of being alive is always there
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and how can we bring that joy back in even
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in the midst of hardest of hardest times. So one
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of the things that is going on is the artificial intelligence,
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where it is on one hand, leveling the playing field
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where people can do so many things that they were
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not able to do before. And on the other hand,
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it's a harsh reality that jobs are being gone, even
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though we're not seeing it completely right now, but they're
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massively off happening. So when people are going for interview,
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what separates them from the other people who have their
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answers from AI? So the key is as to how
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they are thinking. It is separating the strategic thinkers from
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just AI generated answers. And if you are looking to
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do that, or even if you're looking to grow in
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your profession, or if you're an entrepreneur, How do you
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go out there and stand out, not in the social
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media noise, but not also in the digital footprint, but
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in the era of AI. Get our book the AI Agency,
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and of course there are other books. Thank you for
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to kiwa dot org. And let's talk about bringing that
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joy amidst all the fears that exist.
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Malcolm, Ddie, thank you for having me, Davia glad to
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be here.
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Well, it's great to have you. So Eddie, do you
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recall a moment there in your early life or later
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somebody or some situation left the post to mark on you.
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Oh, there are so many, but let's start on the
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early part. So when I was in high school, I
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read a book about mother Trisa and that she left
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a big mark on my heart, and I thought she
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was the coolest a person. She got a calling and
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that's what she wanted to do in her life and
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she did it. So that's what I thought. She was
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the coolest person. Despite all odds. She accomplished so much,
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and so I decided I wanted to meet her and
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that I was able to meet her at Meet and
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Greet while she was in visiting Japan. I'm originally from Japan,
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but I really wanted to go where she actually does
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what she does. So after college, I flew to India
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and volunteered at Home Foro Dying Destitute in Calcutta. And
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I volunteered there and I was able to meet her again.
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She I did a little bit shook hands. So I
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was really happy being able to be in her presence
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and joyful presence despite all the hard work she does.
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But on the other hand, I saw many other volunteers
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who are healthcare professionals doing studying an ivy, dressing the wound.
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I had no medical training at that point, so I
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was only feed the people or put a powder on
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the patients after their bath. That was all I could do.
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So I said, someday, if I were to come back
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or do something like this, I really need more training.
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And that's the beginning of my healthcare career.
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Ah and Japan. People have such a fascination for Japan
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because there's so many ikey guy and you know those
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philosophical principles that have been gifted to the world, Yes,
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from the culture of Japan. So what are a couple
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of things that you carried with yourself from Japan.
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So it's funny you mentioned I Guy right after bad
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because that's one of my guiding principles. So ikey guy,
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you know, I when I was in Japan, I simply
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thought of that as life's purpose. But as it was
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introduced to the world, people in the English speaking world
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started to understand the ikey guy, which is the intersection
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of what you love, what you're good at, and what
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the world needs and what can sustain you, you know,
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meaning you can have income from that. And you know,
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after I struggled a little bit, after I left healthcare
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system and became an entrepreneur, gallery owner, artist, I found
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ikey guy all over again. Healthcare was my ike Guy
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at the beginning, after mother trisser and working as a
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nurs practitioner for thirty almost thirty years, but then that
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changed over time. And now you know, as an artist
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having my own gallery, doing what I love to do
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every day and people love it and I can make
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a living doing it, so it's so joyful. It's Ekey Guy.
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Every single day I'm leaving my Ekey Guide. So I
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think that is a gift from Japan the concept to the.
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World, absolutely, and there are other concepts like from Linsi
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Sigma that I have used, Kenman and Kaisen and it's
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just I'm definitely a fan of a lot of the
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principles from Japan. So you mentioned that Mother Teresa's joyful presence,
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So what can you share a couple of things about her, like,
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you know, what did you experience with her? What did
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you take away from your meetings with her?
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Yes, she is a tiny little person, but you can
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I kind of have an image that like an energizer bunny,
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So I have this kind of long lasting battery. And
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she's running around this little home for dying destitute this way,
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that way. But you know, but she has the presence.
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She talks to each patient, each volunteer, and she has
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the presence full of love, care for every single person,
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and also joyful and she jokes around. She's laughing in
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this little temple full of dying people. But it's it's
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a very solemn and serious place on one hand, but
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on the other hand, the people who are walking there
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there seems to be content, you know, loving what they're doing,
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helping everybody. And so she's leading this and she's you know,
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taking care of patients, touching everybody, but On the other hand,
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I see her in the distance one time and she's
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walking with a nice gentleman, and that somebody whispers to me,
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you know who that is that gentleman. He's the Prime
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Minister from France. So she's so humble and so unassuming
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that she is talking to you know, she's a friend
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with the Princess Diana, or the royalties and all the
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you know, the head of the States, and so she
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just handles this beautifully without any ego, any self consciousness.
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She does what she does step by step, and she's
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and also I went to the mass at the Missionaries
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of Charity, and I thought she would be presiding over
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the whole thing, but then no, she came a little
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bit late, and she sat in the very back, very quiet,
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and nobody would have noticed her, only because I was
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looking for where is she? Where is she? So she's
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very humble, yet she's huge in that little tiny body,
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but just she's you know, have this quite small and
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just feel the energy the aura that love. So she's
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amazing and I was so so lucky to have been
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able to talk to her and shook hands and that
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I remember she had the softest hand. I was expecting
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really rough, callousy hand with all the things she does,
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but she got the softest, warmest hand. I never forget
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that I was only eighteen or so when that happened.
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Well, what a blessing. And you mentioned that you were
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in the healthcare because she inspired you to go and
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help people. So what was your journey like as a
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norse practitioner.
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So after I volunteered at the Mother Trice's home for
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the institute, I thought I needed to do something, and
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I also needed to learn English better. So I came
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to the US and enrolled in English as a second language.
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Then I started to do nurses AID. Since the vocational nursing,
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I'll ben and RN and master's degree in Nurse Practitioner.
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It's a lot, you know. It's always like this in
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my life. Something I need to do, it unfolds itself.
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Somebody will tell me, because I did know anything about
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LVN or nurs practitioner. But when it's time, somebody will
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tell me, oh, here's another program you might be good
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for you and I go there and do it. And
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then after I got my RN, somebody tell me, oh,
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there's such thing as nurse practitioner. You might be interested
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in Okay, I'll look into it. And I did it.
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So over eight years, I'm going to school, I'm working
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in the evening at the hospital. So I did both
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for about eight years until I got my master's degree
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for nurs practitioner. And I loved taking care of patients.
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I loved working in a hospital. So I felt like, yeah,
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I did it. I'm working on my mission like mother Trisa.
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So I really love the interaction with the patients every day.
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And then after I finished working at the floor nursing,
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I became an instructition at my own office. I had
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a corner office, beautiful corner office. I was able to
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schedule my patients the way I like it, so I
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had an ideal setting. My husband is a physician, and
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he's always jealous of my position. Like you're working, you know,
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at your own pace, and you have weekends off and
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evening it's off and holidays off, and I'm working evenings
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and uncles. He was always jealous of me. But over time,
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you know, I was in healthcare for almost thirty years,
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and over time, the computer caming you mentioned AI, the
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computer came in and we have to do more and
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more documentation in a computer and there's more regulation, more insurance,
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more restrictions, and we were not able to as a
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healthcare provider. We were not able to practice medicine as
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the way we used to patients. Patient was not the
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center anymore. It was about liability, productivities, and documentation. It
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became a center stage, not patients. So it wasn't just me,
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but a lot of healthcare professionals. Clinicians started to get
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more stressed out, burned out, depressed, and I saw that
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in so many of my colleagues. And that's when I
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got involved into National Academy of Medicine Clinician Well Being Committee,
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and yeah, so because it became a national issue and
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more clinicians committing suicidey depressed, having PTSD, so it was
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a serious problem. This is even before COVID and the
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studied in nineteen seventeen or eighteen or twenty eighteen. Sorry,
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And so I wanted to be part of it. And
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luckily I started to painting in about two thousand and eight,
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so I already had ten years of art education, and
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when the National Academy of Medicine called for art artistic
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representation of clinician wellbeing and burnout, I had a whole
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body of work deficting healthcare professionals good days and bad days.
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I submitted several of them, and they picked one of
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my portraits of my husband kind of looking depressed as
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kind of a postal void for depression and clinical clinicians burnout.
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So that's how I got involved in this kind of
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prevention of burnout using art as a healing tool involvement movement,
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So that's kind of but I started to use art
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for healing purposes. So yeah, I know.
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That is that is really really allowing to hear that
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clinicians were committing suicide, and because that patient care not
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being the center, you know, it takes away from the
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purpose of the clinicians what they're doing. And I can
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definitely say that that for some of the physicians that
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I've been with, they've still maintained even though they have
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to record everything and as things are emerging, but having
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that piece of humanity. But I can definitely see why
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it caused a bone out. So since you mentioned that
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art therapy was coming into with the clinicians as well,
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so tell us how it has grown m HM.
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So well, the first encounter was one of my husband's portrait,
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you know, kind of looking depressed. It's called at the
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end of the day. So he's holding his head, the
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faces half in shadow. And then first my husband did
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not like that, because why are you painting me like that?
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But then as I have it in my studio and
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I you know, put it on my Facebook and song,
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and so many people resonated with that painting. And it
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wasn't only healthcare professionals, but people who are maybe it
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could be teachers, could be anybody. But you know, people
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have this bad day at the end of the day.
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You're so exhausted, you know, you don't even want to communicate.
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You just you can only hold your heads and take us,
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you know, deep breath. So so many people resonated with
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that painting, and so that means, you know, that painting
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does have to be necessarily this beautiful, pretty colorful thing,
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but just depicting the reality with the emotion, strong emotion,