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This is beyond confidence and now here's your host, div Park.
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Good morning listeners. It's awesome to be here with y'all
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because it's Tuesday morning, and I just want to share that.
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I want to share a beautiful story. So in North
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Carolina and western North Carolina, along with Florida, we have
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had really some rough times. So one of my friends
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was in the eye actually in the Florida like during Milton,
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and she shed a beautiful short story where all the
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neighbors came together when the power was out for almost
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couple of days and they brought whatever you know, their
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foods were and at a party because the sunny Florida.
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It was sunny the next day. And that is so
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powerful when people come together, when they're helping each other.
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And I can share with you so many different stories
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how people are coming together and helping each other. So
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remember to have that kindness in your heart and help
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each other out. And I want to thank each and
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key what dot org. Oh, let's bring in our guests. Well, yeah,
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it's wonderful to have y'all. So we begin with from
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childhood' all recall a moment when or a person who
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left a post mark on y'all.
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Michael, Well, I remember when I was a kid. My
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dad always helped me out and gave me assistance, especially
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in playing baseball. And he was my coach and used
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to take me to all the games and taught me
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how to run the bases and how to catch, and
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how to hit, and all the secrets of baseball to
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be a good baseball player. Actually, I've played a lot
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of baseball in my life, and he was always there
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for me, always coaching and always stepping up and filling
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in all the you know, the gaps that occur when
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I needed assistance or would have failed in some particular area.
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He would show me how to do it correctly and
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we would practice. And I've alway, I've always appreciated that
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service that he was willing to give to me as
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a as a child, it meant a lot, and I've
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always used that now going forward to try to be
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of service literally to other people, to be of service
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in some way, to be loving, to be of service,
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to bring something to the table that will benefit Then.
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That's beautiful.
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Yeah, I don't have that story to you.
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I'm sure somebody.
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Actually, No, there wasn't. There wasn't. There wasn't.
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And I grew up.
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Everything was cool. I mean, you know, everything was cool.
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But mine was very introverted, very introverted all all along.
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And I knew I had a mission early on, and
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I knew to keep that to myself and not share it.
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Like my journey was not typical at all. And you know,
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I even left home at seventeen and started college and
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this and that and moved moved away across the country
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and you know, and at twenty four's when I met Michael.
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He was actually my sociology instructor, and I knew the
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first day he walked in the classroom that we had
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a mission to do together. Mate, my intuition, the bells
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went off and he was twice my age. You know,
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now we've been together thirty years. But yeah, so so
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my journey was different atypical than most. Absolutely, but it
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is about service. You know. Michael always reminds me. One
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of the first things I said to him on one
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of our first dates was we're gonna do this mission.
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We're going to call it trust yourself, and we're going
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to uplift humanity. That's what I said to him when
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I was twenty four, and he looked at me. He
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thought I was nuts.
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Who cares about humanity? Let's do something for ourselves. It's
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like whoa But Nicole had already tapped into internally, tapped
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into that feeling of having a mission to be of
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service to others, to put something together and bring it
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to the table, so whatever we were doing would benefit
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the whole as well as ourselves. So it was interesting
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because I had a dream also while teaching there. It
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was in Texas. I've taught all over pretty much the
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United States, but there was a college in Texas and
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I was teaching, and while teaching one night, I had
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a very clear, vivid dream and in it there was
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a girl who was a fitness expert and her name
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was Nicole, and she had blonde hair and brown eyes.
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And I journaled the dream, luckily, a full page of journaling.
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Fast forward three years, I'm still teaching sociology at the college,
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and who walks into my class and sits in the
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front row the dream girl Nicole, And I wish I
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would have remembered the dream, but it give me a break.
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It had been three three all right. However, later I
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did find the dream. I started having deja vous, like, whoa,
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I've done this before? Why does this feel familiar? And
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because of the dream signs and intuition, deja vous meaning
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having seen before French, And that's all deja vous is.
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Everyone's had a deja vous. It just means it's a
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forgotten dream and we've had it in the dream state,
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and then it occurs in our daily life when we go, wow,
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does this feel feel familiar? And that was that's when
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I eventually found the dream. And actually we were in
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Arizona at the time. An NBC sent a crew and
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a camera crew and recorded the whole thing with the
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dream and the journal and our backstory. So it taught
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me to pay attention to the important tools of dreams, signs,
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and intuition, and that they're all connected and they're all
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giving us a message. And that is what really turned
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my life around, I went a different direction.
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So when you mentioned that when Nicole walked into your
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class that you had already dreamt about her, did you
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go back and check the whole journaling you had done.
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It was almost a year or two until I went
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back and checked the journal And actually Nicole picked up
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on the fact that we're supposed to be together and
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have a mission together and get married by her intuition
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she when she walked into the classroom. Yeah, but I did.
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I waited til the next semester, and then I asked
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Michael out. He didn't remember the dream at all until
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we were together for two years, and then he had
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the deja vous and then he grabbed the dream journal.
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So it was my tenacity, my insanity, my craziness in
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asking my teacher out the next semester esther. Then we
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were engaged. We had lunch down, dinner the next night.
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We were engaged in ninety days, married in nine months,
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and now it's been thirty years. So so yeah, it
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was just my tenacity and knowing this through intuition and
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keeping it quiet. There's nothing there's a spiritual law of silence, actually,
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and all it means is to remain quiet about the
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things you're working on that are dear to you, because
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it's like you ow't Let's say we're working with a
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clay and we're doing a pot. You only have so
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much clay. Well, if you start talking about your project
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or your plan, it's as if you're giving away parts
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of the clay. You don't have as much vibrational material
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to work with to manifest your dreams. So it's very
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good to keep things quiet until there's a certain point
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when you can cert when you can certainly share things.
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And we all like you'll have an intuitive feeling of
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when that time is. But I knew for a long
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time to be quiet. I didn't even tell Michael about
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my intuitive hunch. I just followed it. I didn't tell
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I didn't tell my mother or anybody. I mean, I
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called my mom after we got married, I said, hey,
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I just eloped. She So I kept everything very quiet
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all along.
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Yeah, And that's that's really, Uh, that's important, staying quiet.
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It's how we manifest things. And in manifesting things, as
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we begin to you know, have a vision of them
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in our imagination, and then we start working on it
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and moving toward the goal of bringing it here to us.
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Whatever it is, could be a career, could be a company,
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could be you know, something that we're working on, like
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Divine Guidan's Institute, bringing that here. It's important to keep
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it quiet because it keeps the energy. The energy is
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a ball when we perceive it inwardly through our imagination,
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and if we start talking about it with other people,
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it's like a ball of yarn. It just keeps a thread,
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keeps going out and pretty soon we have less and
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we don't have the full impact to really manifest it
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in the present moment. So it's good to hold it
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until we're ready to deliver the final punch.
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So let's say you know what you're talking about that
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if you have a plan, if you have a project,
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then continue working on it so that way you're not
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spending your energy out there. What else people can do
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because so many times what happens is people are in
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really good places. They have got good lives, they've checked
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all the boxes, as we say, right, like have a
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wonderful family, two kids, it's and two and a half kids,
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a white picket fence, so to speak, a good job
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or a good business, and yet they're not feeling well.
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They're not feeling that fulfillment in synergy alignment in their life.
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So how can they bring that sy chronicity, that harmony
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and serenity in their lives.
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That's a fabulous point. And you're you know, in being
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a clinical psychologist and working with clients for twenty five years,
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you're right, all the boxes are checked and there's still
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something missing. That's even why you know, the divorce rate
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is at forty five percent right now, and that's why
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the man they have their man cave and girls have
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girls' night out. It's because that unfulfillment that you just
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spoke of. And we do have a technique and it's
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simple and it sounds silly, but it's back by science.
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So we're going to get into it. But we have
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a technique for your audience, one word that will change
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everything actually, and it's called the.
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Hugh hu Hugh.
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We call it one magic word, the universal Panacea. We
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also refer to it as the Holy Grail and one
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step therapy all in one.
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So how did you arrive at it? And give us
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the story behind it and then tell us how does
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it work?
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Okay, the word is hugh, h u Hugh. I'll give
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you a quick demo and then i'll back it up.
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Hugh Hu Hugh inhale, h on the exhale. The cool
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thing is you can do it out loud or silently,
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eyes open or closed, so you can do it while
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you're doing the dishes, and you can do it while
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you're sitting in a business meeting. No one has to know,
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so that's the user friendly part. Now to back it up,
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we'll just give you a little history. The word hugh
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was actually in the Oxford English Dictionary under the word human.
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The word human is where the word new comes from.
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And so there there's a path entitled Eckencar e c
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k A n k A R and they use the
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word h as a technique to help make things better
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in your life. So that's where we found the word
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hugh through Eckencar. However, we said, let's take this further,
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and so we've researched the word and and and use
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it with clients evidence based, you know, theory and field experience.
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So okay, it's in the Oxford Dictionary. They used to
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hew at the sphinx five thousand years ago from dusk
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until dawn to raise the vibrations of society. So the
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word is goes way way back and then in our
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research we found it in fourteen different different paths and
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their sacred texts, so it's got quite a history there.
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Interesting. So what you're saying is like, say the word
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during both inhalation and exhalation really just.
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On the exhalees. Yeah, and you can think it so
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you don't even have to, you know, use any any
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certain method. It's just that effective. And the thing is,
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if we can go into the science.
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A little bit, if that's okay, please go ahead.